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Laura Boskelly Killen

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December 8, 2025

New Years resolutions are pointless

Every December people decide that January 1st will be the day everything finally changes. That’s when I’ll get serious. That’s when I’ll take care of myself. That’s when I’ll start the thing I’ve been putting off.

But here’s the truth no one wants to say out loud:
New Year’s resolutions are mostly pointless. Not because people lack discipline, but because the entire concept sets you up to fail before you even begin.

Let’s break down why — and why the most powerful time to start is right now.

Resolutions Delay Action

When you choose an arbitrary date in the future to begin, you’re not committing, you are procrastinating.

If something matters — your health, your strength, your confidence, your peace — why wait 30, 10, or even 3 days?
Starting later trains your brain to believe that your goals can always wait.

But momentum doesn’t wait. Motivation doesn’t wait.

“New Year, New Me” Creates All-or-Nothing Thinking

January 1st feels like a clean slate, but that pressure is exactly why resolutions crumble by February.

People try to transform their lives overnight.
They attempt perfection.

And when perfection breaks (because it always does), so does the resolution.

True change is built in daily, imperfect choices — not once-a-year reinventions.

Motivation Is Highest When the Idea First Hits You

Ever get that spark of “I’m ready”?
That moment is powerful — and it’s fleeting.

Waiting kills it, starting honors it.

If you feel the pull to become stronger, healthier, or more consistent, that’s your sign. Not the date on a calendar.

The Calendar Isn’t in Charge — You Are

January 1st is just a Monday with a better PR team.

Nothing magical happens at midnight.
You don’t suddenly become more disciplined, more available, or more ready.

Change happens when you decide you’re done with excuses…
and you choose action over intention.

That can be today.
That can be right now.

The Real Resolution? Don’t Wait.

You don’t need a new year.
You need a new decision.

One small choice today is worth more than the biggest promise you make on January 1st.

If you want strength, energy, confidence, or a healthier lifestyle…
start today, even if it’s messy, imperfect, or tiny.

Because if you keep waiting for the “right moment,” you’ll be waiting for the rest of your life.

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